Spotlight: Wesley Keshy ; Becoming the Man His Style Reveals

There is something striking about a man who grows into himself gently, intentionally, and without noise. A man whose style is not just fabric or colour, but a reflection of his inner world, who he is, who he is becoming, and how he chooses to be seen.

This month, in honour of International Men’s Day, we are spotlighting men whose journeys with style have shaped their identity, confidence, and presence. Men who use style as expression, as grounding, and as a quiet but powerful form of support.

Meet Wesley Keshy

Here is his story, in his own words:

“Style is a reflection of my persona.” - Wesley

My name is Wesley Keshy, and for a long time, style wasn’t something I thought deeply about. Before 2021, anything went for me. As long as it was decent and comfortable, I wore it. I wasn’t intentional about how I showed up, because I didn’t yet see style as a personal language.

But things shifted for me around 2021.

I decided to start caring , not for people, not because of pressure, but because I realised I could express myself better. So I became more intentional. I started learning: exploring colour theory, understanding blocking, figuring out what worked for me, and experimenting until I found what felt like my style.

It became a process of giving expression to myself through what I wore.

And as I learned, I began to see that style wasn’t something external. It was internal. It was identity.

One thing that shapes how I show up is the understanding that I am an extension of God, that I embody and exhibit God-like characteristics. When I walk into a room, I carry that knowledge with me, and it influences everything, even my style.

Style elevated my confidence. It still does. When I dress with intention, my identity and personality become amplified. I stand taller, I move differently, and I communicate without speaking. Style became my quiet way of saying, “I know who I am.”

Becoming Wesley

My journey with style has been transformative. It taught me to be deliberate, to understand myself, and to honour the man I am becoming. It helped me embrace confidence not as performance, but as clarity.

Looking back, I see that style didn’t change me, it revealed me.

This is my story, and this is how I navigate the world with confidence, identity, and intention.